

Everytime I did, I got a terrible rash, itching and ingrown hairs (regardless of method used). I used to shave/wax my private bits, because I thought that’s what you’re supposed to do.

I (33F) actually had a somewhat similar conversation with my now husband (34M). TL DR: Girlfriend pretty much called me a pedo because I told her I liked shaved pussy when she asked me my preference. We've never had any issues and was planning on proposing in the next year.

Honestly not even sure where to go from here. As she left she called me revolting and is now ignoring my calls and text messages. When she told me this, I asked her "are you seriously calling me a pedophile because I find completely shaven attractive?! Can I just point out that you're 21 and not 12?" She basically skirted around my questions and then stormed out of my apartment when I kept pressing her on it.

Apparently one of the talking points was that pedophiles are attracted to the lack of body hair. Well it turns out she had had a lecture today at college (she studies psychology) and the topic was on peadophiles. I assumed she was just looking to change things up and wanted my opinion so I answered honestly and said that I find completely shaven attractive, but in the grand scheme of things I couldn't care less, it's not a turn off if there's hair, and that I like the way she has it now. So yesterday my girlfriend casually asked me how I prefer pubic hair to be groomed. If you or someone you know is involved in an abusive relationship or would like information on warning signs to watch out for, check out The Red Flag Campaign.
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